`After six years of working in emergency services, I had seen and dealt with lots of ugly things. On top of the constant hardness of the job I also had to deal with the absolute devastation of a marital breakup.
My tough guy persona and mask started to crumble. My old coping technics failed. I couldn’t just dummy up anymore, and every day I felt more angry, hurt, betrayed and every other negative emotion I could feel.
I started to become a shitty cop and an even shittier father.
I knew of co-workers and even a few friends who would never work again because of psych issues and PTSD. I didn’t want to be “one of them.” I didn’t know where to start looking, but I knew I needed to start looking.
That’s when I found the discreet professional services of Dynamic Discovery and Bob. I don’t know where I would’ve ended up if I wouldn’t have sent that email. I did send it, and it was the best decision of my life. I’m me again, better than I have ever been.
From where I was to where I am has been an unbelievable life change. Through Bob’s coaching, I changed my way of thinking and dealt with the shit. I made myself a better cop, a better human and most importantly a better father.
Started seeing this man in spring of 2014. He was in his 30s and had a complaint of PTSD from a recent firearms-related incident. He had an accompanying depression and anxiety. A little digging revealed two failed marriages, some recent relationship failures and inability to select girlfriends or mates who didn’t drink or drug. He had used prescriptions for depression and anxiety. Many of his problems stemmed from childhood incidents of abuse of one form or another, which were buried very deep. `